Age Barriers in Romance

hey man I'm not saying always here, just sometimes. I know some younger dudes like older chicks to show them the way, that was most certainly my view point however I got to take into consideration my mother and fathers age difference and the fact my mother had a bad relationship with her father.

With my expericence in life and what i went thru I can only relate that with my viewpoints on age difference, its most certainly not the know all tell all but where I'm comming from.

I'm very sure some younger chicks like older guys who seem more mature, settled and done fooling arround versus the guys their own age who are not done planting their man seed in every hole possible.

As far as getting mental health help I pride my self on never having to talk to any one about anything in the mental health field, I've always worked my way out of any issue / problem I face. I am however meeting with the victims of my mothers crime after almost 20 years of no contact with any one in the area where my mother did her crim.

I plan to visit them on the way to my move to cali and have been in touch with them for about 4 months now. Its my way of dealing with my feelings and it helps.

Getting back and staying on topic I would say that it does tell a lot about a person when you have some older man with a young chick and yes it seems a little dirty but to be honest if it works for them than who am I to talk smack about it? I

learned that lesson when I used to debate gay anal sex. Now granted this is way different than a romp in some mans poop hole, I still think that if the girl is over 18 it should be ok, sure the man may be a perv and feel the need to control a young impressionable mind and yea it does piss me off seeing old sick pervs import 3rd world girls because their fat old asses can't attract a girl thats not in dire need of a better life but I can only hate it so far... After all it was that old man who humped a 23 year old women that produced me, with out that I wouldent be here blessing this forum with my presence.


The blessing the forum part was sarcasm, please don't take that part serious.

Originally Posted by Shively

The blessing the forum part was sarcasm, please don't take that part serious.

...I assure you, we didnt. Much like everything you say.

Well thats great because I understand my reputation ( for you old timers from 2001-2005ish ) remember me arguing politics, let me say this much, theres a reason why last time I looked in 06 in the politics forum they had something about No debating homosexuality etc.. However I am pretty open in person and on the forum which is nothing more than an extension of who we all are.


While personaly I get sick at gold diggers and the crusty old men they marry, thats not always the case. My mother had more money than my dad which later in life lead me to believe her attraction to my rather old father was in part due to her bad relationship to her father ( my grandpa ) While that is different than the OPs question with regards to how far we will go

it might play some part when addressing an under age girl ( under 18) and lets say a guy in his 20-30's Typicaly I would say she might have a bad relationship with her father OR she thinks it will help her mature faster?

While the guy just gets a fresh piece of ass that no other guy has enjoyed yet ( some guys get off on the whole virgin thing ) Personaly I'd prefer a girl I do not have to teach how to have sex as I prefer a women who can give as much as she takes with out guidence.

The best piece of advice is if you are serious about her and are not going to take advantage of a younger more impressionable mind that more power to you.

Someone crashes a car and you kind of feel bad.

Someone backs the car up and purposely hits the wall dead-on a second time, you stop to watch and wonder why in the fuck they're doing that.

Someone backs up the car and smashes it repeatedly into the same wall over and over, you just walk away.

Which one are YOU, Shively? The reactions you're getting should answer that for you.

What ever one it is I could care less dude. I already made my point on this thread.


Your analogy did not make sense either, I'm going to say what ever I am going to say regardless of reactions, outbursts etc. Just not going to break any rules doing it.

Shively, your straightforward persona and uncompromising ideals have earned my respect. I think we can do business together. Here's my card:

Originally Posted by Shively

What ever one it is I could care less dude. I already made my point on this thread.

Well, you have me there.

Just don't get bent out of shape because you gave everyone here good reason to deride you unerringly until the end of time.

Originally Posted by Sassafrass

19 years is a big difference. I can't possibly imagine what a 44 year old would share in common with a 25 year old, but it's the same old argument. There's something psychologically askew if you ask me.

thanks for your worries Freud, but I don't think i've live a trauma strong enough to intentionally look for much older men. As I said, I thought he was 35, which was a ''reasonnable'' difference

Originally Posted by Janus X

I don't think i've live a trauma strong enough to intentionally look for much older men.

So ... you look for them unintentionally?

Yes, I see.

Originally Posted by Janus X

thanks for your worries Freud, but I don't think i've live a trauma strong enough to intentionally look for much older men. As I said, I thought he was 35, which was a ''reasonnable'' difference

I don't worry about you. I don't give a shit about you.

I just kind of laugh at you. You're too dumb to recognize what's going on, and you're old enough to give it thought.

Originally Posted by Sassafrass

You're too dumb to recognize what's going on, and you're old enough to give it thought.

One of these statements is wrong.

Can you, the viewers at home, see which one it is?

Originally Posted by LeHah

One of these statements is wrong.

Can you, the viewers at home, see which one it is?

Well, I mean, age is a "technicality." Obviously it shouldn't actually mean anything, but it's pretty clear that stupidity can touch anyone of any age!

Originally Posted by Sassafrass

Obviously it shouldn't actually mean anything, but it's pretty clear that stupidity can touch anyone of any age!

I think we can agree on the idea that intelligence is what some people are "touched" with, while the sweeping majority of people are made and remain stupid.

Originally Posted by Sassafrass

I don't worry about you. I don't give a shit about you.

I just kind of laugh at you. You're too dumb to recognize what's going on, and you're old enough to give it thought.

I know that; I'M playing with you

Originally Posted by Janus X

I know that; I'M playing with you

O, I am sure it was all a part of your big plan.

Originally Posted by Janus X

I know that; I'M playing with you

This was just a social experiment for my sociology class!!

Originally Posted by Pangalin

Shively, your straightforward persona and uncompromising ideals have earned my respect. I think we can do business together. Here's my card:

Spiffy card there we can do luch sometime.

Just

stay

down

Originally Posted by LeHah

Well, you have me there.

Just don't get bent out of shape because you gave everyone here good reason to deride you unerringly until the end of time.

Can't deride me I typicaly bend ( and with bad habbit ) conversations to fit in what I would like to say. Might I suggest you give up your stuck up pseudo intellectual attitude or take it to someone you can upset. I gave up getting pissy over any forum back in 02ish when I was banned the first time. Thanks