Personality Traits You Hate

I hate men who try to be controlling just because they are "the man" in a relationship. Ugh!

And I also abhor people who get in my face. I always tell my brother to get out of my personal space. lol

Hypocrisy pisses me off no end.

Superficiality irks me even more. "OH I'M SO COOL AND GREAT AND BRILLIANT WHEN REALLY I'M NOT BUT I MAKE OUT I AM".

People who try too hard piss me off also, whether it be the type who try too hard to be different, or try too hard to look popular and cool. Also people who you invest time and care into and they just piss off when they're done with you piss me off also. And if you try and confront them about it they're all "OH NO YOU MAY DAMAGE MY POPULARITY STOP PLZ".

Unacceptance (in certain cases) pisses me off too. "Oh look, someone speaking a language that isn't ours in their own private conversation. Let's loudly and rudely speak stereotypical <language>" Say a vietnamese person is speaking to someone else in Vietnamese and soem idiot comes along and is all "KIYONG THAN THO FAN LOL I R SO FUNNY"

I could go on....

Superficiality irks me, especially the people who pretend to know you. This is not the generic ‘how are you today?’ or any of the feigned interest conversations starters. This is the “Oh, we haven’t talked for ages…” (when we’ve never talked at all), orther “What did say your name was?” (Actually, we’ve never met, idiot…). I don’t know if they’re doing it subconsciously, but I don’t have much patience for these sudden ‘friends.’

As for eye-contact… Some cultures find it intimidating, confronting and a sign of disrespect. In contrast, others believe that if you aren’t making eye contact you’re lying, have something to hide and not to be trusted. I suppose for this reason it doesn’t bother me if someone appears to be avoiding my gaze. Of course, if you think you should be doing it more and are finding it difficult, rather than trying to stare someone down, a good trick is to focus both your eyes on one of their eyes, hold for as long as comfortable and switch to the other eye.

I dislike people who won't give up trying to get someone to like them.

I hate arrogant, cocky, overconfident people.

Extroverts. It's not just lots of talking, that I actually don't mind, its just something subtle about their personality.

That and excessive optimism...I just look at them funny and think "where are you LIVING????"

I hate when people are clingy.

I work at blockbuster right off campus. A lot of people from my dorm come in and rent. There are probably 100+ people that live there.

There is this guy that lives in my dorm that has come to blockbuster maybe two times and seen me there. I said hi to him and whatnot, but now everytime I see him he wants to hug me and it makes me very uncomfortable. My boyfriend said I should tell him I'm taken, but he already knows. I dunno what to do.

Arrogance for one. I have a few friends that each believe they're smarter than the other and have to constantly prove it. Being intelligent and all is great, but not when it interferes with your social life.

Second is dependency. Not a problem with family or friends, but I've dated someone who was just way to dependent on me. He was pretty well depressed, and I became sort of an escape form it. When shit went downhill, he had a hard time letting go and breaking up was horrible.

I don't like "follower" types. The ones that agree with whatever you're saying and will laugh at something just because you're laughing at it. It's pathetic and is disgusting in my eyes. Other than that, I don't really mind anything.

I hate overly arrogant people who try to tell you what you think. For example, once I was saying that I quite liked this one band (can't remember which exactly!) and one of my friends turned around and went, "For God's sake, you've only heard one of their songs! You can't like them after only hearing one song!" I replied, "Actually, I've listened to a few of their albums." Which caused them to shut up straight away. I mean, who the hell were they to tell me how many of this bands songs I'd listened to? And thats only one example...

I also hate it when people totally big themselves up. I'm not saying I hate confident people, just people who are all like, "I'm so great for x, y and z reasons!"

On a lesser note, I have quite a good memory for conversations, and it quite annoys me when you hear someone tell a story again and there's blatant differences! Minor ones I understand, I mean, we all forget details and stuff, but big major changes? =\

Hmmm . . . Personality traits that grate on my nerves . . .

Does "people in positions of power who show favortism based on their personal beliefs" count? (Like when a boss gives a high-profile job to a friend despite there being someone more qualified skill-wise.)

Other than that, I'd go with bigotry and religious righteousness.

arrogance, cockyness (my god there's this idiot in my lectures at uni =_=") umm people who act as if they know like everything, turns out they don't know jack about it... can't think of anymore, but sure there's more in there...

I hate it when people are so easily influenced, it's like they can't do/think for themselves. I had this friend who always did what my best friend did. If she ever got into something, he got into something, if she started to listen to some band, he started to listen to some band et cetera. Basically he was whipped, and it was so annoying. The boyfriend nowadays does the SAME thing. Mentally he is so weak and easily controlled...it's sickening.

I do not like it at all when people think they're cool.
But they're the total opposite of cool, but they think they're so cool.

Just bothers me.

I think I'm pretty easy-going, but a lot of things do irk me (not to the point of complainin' 'bout it to other people though)

I'm not really fond of rude, angry, or cruel people, or people who constantly talk/talk about themselves. The overly weak worries me (I think either "what the hell is his/her problem?" or "am I *that* intimidating? The fuck?")

But on the subject of table manners: I was raised without much "traditional" table manners (eating with hands is ok, talking with food in your mouth wasn't frowned upon, etc.). =/ Dunno, I guess it annoys me when people assume what's polite and what's not; I mean, not everyone was raised the same as you, right?

I maintain constant eye contact when I'm working, but when I'm off the clock, I maintain eye contact with the person for a while, then focus somewhere else. I occassionally look the person in the face, but usually I just focus on their nose/mouth or look around. =/ It's a weird habit of mine.

The people who go out of their way to make sure you know they're "weird" really bother me. Like, the people who fake run-on sentences and talk really fast just to seem like they're really weird.

Because being weird is just so "cool".

I am a hypocrite....I HATE BEING A HYPOCRITE ARRGGHHHH...... it just shows how self-centered I am...and besides, people think I'm weird when I act normally. It's like, I act like who I am, and then they say "you're weird" and I'm like......"wha?!"